Hi guys!
I'd like to ask you for something which some people may laugh at but I'm sure some others will feel the way I do.
I know this is a stupid idea, but if I've learnt something of stupid ideas is that you sometimes can get something useful of them.
And as a friend of mine always say "you already have the no, so you can get the yes"

Seeing the new pics of Amy with her pretty facy covered in impetigos again got me shattered.
It reminded me that she's not getting well, I want to think so but I'm just deceiving myself.
Impetigo was supposed to be cured.. but it came back. 
Another backwards step. 
She keeps on drinking, doing drugs, going out with non-recommendable people, self harming, living out of control..
everybody points it out but nobody does anything.
I think she's realising and wants help..
so why do you think she hurts a visible part of her body, like her arm, and always wears summer clothes?
oh when she returned to rehab some days ago..
she wouldn't have gone if she hadn't thought she needed it.
But going to rehab once is not enough.
I always think "give her some time, she'll get it little by little"
but I never see the improvements, only worrying pictures and videos, like the ones we've been seeing lately.
So how long should we wait to see good results of her recovery?

I was watching Stronger Than Me video and went on tears.
I have a bunch of things to think of, she's just an artist after all.. and not even my most favourite one
however she's always on my mind.
Seeing her falling in this way hurts.
And seeing that we can't do anything to help her is just unbearable.
I don't want her to die..
sorry of it sounds too strong, but that's the truth.
Someone must avoid that and turn this girl into a normal life again.

So I'm asking you guys..
is it true that we can't do anything?
wouldn't be a way for us to help her?
like writing an email all together and send it to her parents, some family, her manager.. anyone..
or anything else..
have you got any idea? any suggestion?
there must be some way to help her and to sit down waiting to see what happens is not the best to do it.

yes i know exactly what you mean. i'm thinking about that all the time!but i don't know what to do, it really hurts me to see her in a bad health.i think all the press has to stop talking bad about her, and the managers have to stop pressurize her, amy won't get it that way. in a other message somebody told us: amy has to get at her own that she had to stop taking drugs, otherway she won't stop that! here in germany the most magazines talk bad about her, i can't find often good storrys about her. that hurts me really,because they can't see her in the way we can do. they always see the girl who takes drugs and drink, who always do silly thing! but that's not alone amy!! it's a destructive part of her,but not everything! i really want to help her, i'm searious!!! i understand you Miss Sella, i get that she can be dead in a few way if she'll do it this way.thinking on this makes me starting to cry!!can't imagine living without amy( sounds silly, is the truth)!!!! i think her parents can't do alot, if amy doesn't realize that her life is in danger, nobody can help her!!!

There's only one person who can do anything about the situation...

i can understand you,she now on the way to death...when i think about her die. i'm really cry,i don't like to lose he ,lose her=lose my world...i think can help her person who have the same situation,and who don't want to use drugs anymore...but amy can help amy,if she want to do it,she do it,she need to make new life without old friends like pete doherty...and i have no idea how we can help her,because she don't know me....maybe anybody here know how we can help her,but i have no idea:'(

Miss Stella  this is not a stupid idea I agree with you .

Just like myself you think about Amy alot ,Amy must mean a lot to you .

I know she will get better soon and we will have our old Amy back.

Untill then we will have to support her the best we can.

I think what you have said is kind and I uderstand what you are saying.

Amy is the best and it is nice to know we all like her very much and always will.

warren

Miss Stella, it's not a silly idea. =)

I want to be able to help Amy too, however i can't see a letter being able to do this. A letter is an EXCELLENT idea though. I just think it should be written in a way that we're just onouncing our pure fanness for her.. (fanness? XD is that even a word LOL). any how.....yeah....... I think a letter is an amazing idea, just don't go on about her Self harming (as a SH'er myself, its not nice to be constantly reminded, hacked and badgered about how she needs to get sorted).. Just try and avoid those subjects as the main?if you get me.. It's nice to mention them i think, but i think she'll appreciate it more if we expressed why we love her, and reminded her of how we all remember her as the old Amy.  gahhh i don't know if this makes any sense. =S. Sorry if im not explaining myself clearly.. How do you plan on sending her it? How would we get her address?

Stella, you sound like a kind and thoughtful person. You've expressed sentiments that many of us share. But I think we must all accept the fact that there's not much any of us can do to help Amy. She may not particularly care what most of us think. Not even her family and close friends have been able to convince her to go into rehab long enough to get well and stay clean. I love her music, but she makes me sad on a daily basis. The best any of us can do is hope and pray that Amy will seek the help she needs, make the most of her talents, and live a long and happy life.

Addiction is a frustrating, infuriating and complex creature.  I think it is admirable that Miss_Stella and others want to show the caring and love they have for Winehouse.  I think it may be good for people's psyche and emotions to give some of that kindness, maybe if Winehouse heard it from her fans, it may give her food for thought (A lot better than those pesky paparazzis!).

 Thanks for your support guys!
I do appreciate your kind and understanding words.
and thanks for caring Amy!
yes, she means a lot to me
she's one of my most favourite artists ever!
I've got really attachet to her and her music in a pretty short period of time.
I just can't believe how someone so young, so beautiful, so great everyway could be destroying herself in this way.

Loveige:

 just don't go on about her Self harming (as a SH'er myself, its not nice to be constantly reminded, hacked and badgered about how she needs to get sorted).. Just try and avoid those subjects as the main?if you get me..

Of course I get you!
As I said, everybody points her problems out but nobody gives any solution.
She knows she has problems, she doesn't need them to be reminded all the time
and I don't want to ( de )press her anymore..
that's why I never said "let's write a letter to Amy"
I could try to meet her this summer ( it's neither easy not impossible )
but handing her the letter wouldn't help much I think..
she doesn't need to hear the same once again, and maybe she wouldn't even take the bother of reading it.
My idea would be to contact her parents/brother/manager/a good friend ( if she has.. ) or anyone else to explain what's happening to Amy, our worry about everything which is going with her and our desperated call of help for her.
Everything explained in a clear manner.
But it's just a suggestion..
of course, we could try to find an easier and better one. 
Anything to help her to help herself.

 well i stil think it's a good idea. I'm behind you on this one. Just let me know what you need me to do & i'll do it. =)

I'm behind you too.i think it's a great idea,i'm happy to help.!!!!

of course i'm behind you,too,but miss_stella how we can contact her parents,brother,best friend???

 Thanks guys!
really nice to know :-)

lynxloveamy:

how we can contact her parents,brother,best friend???

That's a good question XD
I haven't a clue abuot it..
in fact, I wouldn't have open this topik if I had known.
My idea was getting ideas by you all
maybe someone knew any email, address, any fan club that could help..
or any other idea!
Sorry if I'm dissapointing you..
but I don't know what to do
I only knew that I couldn't get it alone, so I asked for help
but take my message just as a desperated call for help to Amy..

Mr pap would know her address =P... But that's a looong shot off?

I'm behind you too ... Maby designer_label our forum moderator knows the contact adress? maby we should sent him a private message? But im not sure if he agree to our plan.